moves-like-jaegar:

social-justice-logic:

wagwias:

savanna:

deus-de-mortem:

proudgayconservative:

fraudulentfeminist:

"I need feminism because… I’m tired of being one of 3 women at my Fire Department!" No.  I’m tired of third wave feminism being so obsessed with equality in every single aspect of life… that they are compromising the safety of others. Did you know that the Australian Fire Department has relaxed its fire service strength and fitness tests just for women because most of them could not even complete the bare minimum required for acceptance? That’s right. Women wanted jobs in the fire department, but because they couldn’t pass the required strength tests they threw a temper tantrum and as a result the government relaxed the entry conditions.   Do you realise what the implications of this are? Imagine a Fire Brigade being forced to hire a number of women because they qualified under the relaxed strength and fitness test (and not hiring them would therefore be discrimination). Now image that same Fire Brigade being called out to a building that is on fire. If there were unconscious occupants still in that building, the only chance of survival for them would be if a fireman pulls them to safety. Now what if one of the female firemen finds two, middle aged men unconscious on the second storey? What if she was one of the many women who could only pass the relaxed strength test because the original was too tough for her? After a long struggle she’ll eventually heave maybe one man out of the building before the fire consumes it… in the same amount of time it would have taken her male colleague to bring out both men.  The Fire Brigade strength and fitness tests weren’t designed to exclude women… They were designed to ensure the safety of those in danger! They were designed to ensure that the rescuers were physically capable of rescuing!! Do you notice how men have little hips and big shoulders? Not only is it cute, it makes them 1000x more efficient at lifting and carrying heavy loads than compared to a woman of the same height and weight. That isn’t a result of patriarchy, that is the result of biology and human anatomy, so go sue Mother Nature if you think it is sexist. Lowering the strength standards has put innocent lives in jeopardy. It has nothing to do with real equality, and everything to do with something as trivial as male:female ratios in certain fields of service. Guess what? It is all because of deluded third wave feminists who consistently fail to look at the bigger picture and are so consumed by their victim complexes and their delusion of being oppressed by the patriarchy that they can’t comprehend the harsh reality of any given situation. - fraudulentfeminist

^Same reason why combat units in our military should not relax their standards just so women have an easier time getting into those units.

What the FUCK
Why do some people have the ridiculous, idiotic, misogynist notion that women are not as strong as men? What the fuck?
That Fire Brigade Bullshit probably happened because the only women to apply weren’t physically fit.
But lemme explain to you a thing. Lemme explain to you ALL a thing.
WOMEN ARE NOT WEAKER THAN MEN.
WOMEN ARE NOT WEAKER THAN MEN.
WOMEN ARE NOT WEAKER THAN MEN
SOCIETY JUST TELLS THEM THAT THEY ARE WHICH CAUSES THEM TO LOSE CONFIDENCE, CAUSING THEM TO BE WEAKER.
Fucking hell.

My dad is a deputy fire chief, and he would have some choice words for the first two responses. He has more than 35 years of experience. He first started in an entry-level position and rose through the ranks, with about eight years outside of a fire department when he was working as a senior investigator and policy analyst at the Office of the Fire Marshall. He also makes a huge effort to hire women, which unfortunately meets with a lot of resistance within the department—by the same people who are also extremely against hiring people of colour or people who aren’t heterosexual. It’s funny how easily bigotry fits into rhetoric of “safety,” isn’t it?
Firstly, women firefighters have to pass the same physical exam as men. A lot men of don’t pass it. A lot of women don’t pass it. But any woman becoming a firefighter has necessarily fulfilled the safety requirements her fitness entails. A lot of women pass the test. Unfortunately, not a lot of women actually apply, because of shitty idiotic attitudes like this. And yes, women often do better on the tests than men. It isn’t the case at all that all men do better than all women who apply. Fuck you for suggesting that.
Secondly, guess what, dipshit. There’s a lot more than goes into putting out fires and rescuing people than brute strength. That’s why there’s a lot of education as well as psychological exams that go into hiring firefighters. And it might stagger you to realize that when you’re talking about entering burning buildings and other hazardous environments, having only a bunch of people with the exact same build and physique is a huge safety risk. You know why the (equally strong, equally smart) women on my dad’s force are such an asset to the team? Because they tend to fit places that men can’t—like through a schoolbus window last month that was inaccessible to almost every firefighter present. My dad says the most effective partners have complementary builds. This often means pairing a woman with a man, as it did in this case. This particular pair often works like this: the man helps move the woman to a place he can’t fit (sometimes literally throwing her through a window). If there hadn’t been a woman, the casualties would have been much higher. And that’s just one example. It’s never a disadvantage to have people of different shapes and sizes, all fully trained and all meeting the same physical requirements of the job, who can contribute differently. 
Thirdly, I’m assuming these idiots regard muscled young white men carrying women and children over each shoulder as the Platonic form of firefighter. But it may astonish you to know that in a fire, smoke kills first. You fucking asphyxiate. That’s one reason firefighters never carry people over their shoulder (the other being that it’s extremely dangerous to deadlift a limp body when you’re wearing 80 pounds of equipment—try doing that and you’re more than likely adding to the amount of victims who need to be rescued). If you hold people up to the ceiling, they fucking asphyxiate. Obviously. So you watch too much TV if you think that’s basically the job. How do firefighters evacuate victims from burning buildings? They drag them along the floor. This is so they don’t suffocate the victim, they lead the way first to safety, and they can fully fucking see and manoeuvre through the hazardous environment. I am not strong. I am not in good shape. I could never be a firefighter without some serious physical training (unlike a ton of other women I know, and like a lot of men). Guess what. Even I can drag my 200-pound, tall, male firefighter father across the floor.
You’re not looking out for people’s safety. You’re upholding misogyny and assuming you know what you’re talking about. We do need feminism in firefighting, because it’s a fucking cesspool of white supremacist patriarchal homophobic cisphobic anti-immigrant privilege good old boys’ club bullshit. It’s based on nothing but prejudice, and emergency services should fairly represent the population they’re paid handsomely to defend. Thankfully, people are slowly steering away from this. There are more and more women becoming firefighters, and last month, a woman joined a neighbouring department to my dad’s as a deputy chief. She passed the tests. She has experience and a sterling record. She also has a Master in Gender Studies, and she’s not very big.

Bolded the part that points out you don’t even want a group of people who all have the same characteristics and strengths and motivations involved in saving lives for both obvious and less obvious reasons (well, if you’re a cisgender, straight, white, able-bodied, and/or otherwise privileged.)

wow guys calm the fuck down the first post had the most valid point; All that has to do with the STRENGTH part of fire fighting. (But BIG FUCKING PROPS to the third guy. U just proved an entire situation.)
Biologically, a male has tendencies to be sufficiently stronger then a female. OFCOURSE THERE ARE GIRLS OUT THERE THAT ARE AS STRONG AND STRONGER Then a guy, but biologically, our anatomy says otherwise with both body built and muscle mass.
So basically, and you guys are doing is trying to bitch at something going around the OBVIOUS FACT that you can’t bitch about Mother Nature.
Grats

IF YOU ARE A MAN AND YOU DONT PASS THE STRENGHT TEST YOU WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED EITHER
YOU DIDNT GET IT BECAUSE YOU DIDNT PASS THE STRENGTH TEST, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR FUCKING SEX
and you know what? women //ARE// usually biologically weaker than men. Ofc there are a LOT of strong ladies out there and there are individual people who are stronger than men, BUT THATS JUST THE WAY IT IS. IT DOESNT MAKE WOMEN LESS OF PEOPLE, BUT ITS FUCKING TRUE, YOU DONT LIKE IT? THEN GO SUE MOTHER NATURE OR SOMETHING.
IF THE FIRE DEPARTMENTS WERE TO LET WEAKER PEOPLE IN IT WOULD PUT SO MANY PEOPLE’S LIVES AT RISK, GOD WHAT THE FUCK TUMBLR, WHY ARE YOU SO BLINDED BY YOUR RAGE OVER NOTHING???

You guys do realize that women have scientifically been proven to be weaker than men? Men are imbued with stronger muscles thanks to natural selection.
Women, on the other hand, are blessed with stronger bones, and stronger hearts. So we get to live longer.
It’s not about whether you’re a woman or not. It’s about how strong you are. Jfc tumblr I thought you were better than this.

moves-like-jaegar:

social-justice-logic:

wagwias:

savanna:

deus-de-mortem:

proudgayconservative:

fraudulentfeminist:

"I need feminism because… I’m tired of being one of 3 women at my Fire Department!"

No.

I’m tired of third wave feminism being so obsessed with equality in every single aspect of life… that they are compromising the safety of others. Did you know that the Australian Fire Department has relaxed its fire service strength and fitness tests just for women because most of them could not even complete the bare minimum required for acceptance? That’s right. Women wanted jobs in the fire department, but because they couldn’t pass the required strength tests they threw a temper tantrum and as a result the government relaxed the entry conditions.  

Do you realise what the implications of this are? Imagine a Fire Brigade being forced to hire a number of women because they qualified under the relaxed strength and fitness test (and not hiring them would therefore be discrimination). Now image that same Fire Brigade being called out to a building that is on fire. If there were unconscious occupants still in that building, the only chance of survival for them would be if a fireman pulls them to safety. Now what if one of the female firemen finds two, middle aged men unconscious on the second storey? What if she was one of the many women who could only pass the relaxed strength test because the original was too tough for her? After a long struggle she’ll eventually heave maybe one man out of the building before the fire consumes it… in the same amount of time it would have taken her male colleague to bring out both men.

The Fire Brigade strength and fitness tests weren’t designed to exclude women… They were designed to ensure the safety of those in danger! They were designed to ensure that the rescuers were physically capable of rescuing!! Do you notice how men have little hips and big shoulders? Not only is it cute, it makes them 1000x more efficient at lifting and carrying heavy loads than compared to a woman of the same height and weight. That isn’t a result of patriarchy, that is the result of biology and human anatomy, so go sue Mother Nature if you think it is sexist.

Lowering the strength standards has put innocent lives in jeopardy. It has nothing to do with real equality, and everything to do with something as trivial as male:female ratios in certain fields of service. Guess what? It is all because of deluded third wave feminists who consistently fail to look at the bigger picture and are so consumed by their victim complexes and their delusion of being oppressed by the patriarchy that they can’t comprehend the harsh reality of any given situation. 

- fraudulentfeminist

^Same reason why combat units in our military should not relax their standards just so women have an easier time getting into those units.

What the FUCK

Why do some people have the ridiculous, idiotic, misogynist notion that women are not as strong as men? What the fuck?

That Fire Brigade Bullshit probably happened because the only women to apply weren’t physically fit.

But lemme explain to you a thing. Lemme explain to you ALL a thing.

WOMEN ARE NOT WEAKER THAN MEN.

WOMEN ARE NOT WEAKER THAN MEN.

WOMEN ARE NOT WEAKER THAN MEN

SOCIETY JUST TELLS THEM THAT THEY ARE WHICH CAUSES THEM TO LOSE CONFIDENCE, CAUSING THEM TO BE WEAKER.

Fucking hell.

My dad is a deputy fire chief, and he would have some choice words for the first two responses. He has more than 35 years of experience. He first started in an entry-level position and rose through the ranks, with about eight years outside of a fire department when he was working as a senior investigator and policy analyst at the Office of the Fire Marshall. He also makes a huge effort to hire women, which unfortunately meets with a lot of resistance within the department—by the same people who are also extremely against hiring people of colour or people who aren’t heterosexual. It’s funny how easily bigotry fits into rhetoric of “safety,” isn’t it?

Firstly, women firefighters have to pass the same physical exam as men. A lot men of don’t pass it. A lot of women don’t pass it. But any woman becoming a firefighter has necessarily fulfilled the safety requirements her fitness entails. A lot of women pass the test. Unfortunately, not a lot of women actually apply, because of shitty idiotic attitudes like this. And yes, women often do better on the tests than men. It isn’t the case at all that all men do better than all women who apply. Fuck you for suggesting that.

Secondly, guess what, dipshit. There’s a lot more than goes into putting out fires and rescuing people than brute strength. That’s why there’s a lot of education as well as psychological exams that go into hiring firefighters. And it might stagger you to realize that when you’re talking about entering burning buildings and other hazardous environments, having only a bunch of people with the exact same build and physique is a huge safety risk. You know why the (equally strong, equally smart) women on my dad’s force are such an asset to the team? Because they tend to fit places that men can’t—like through a schoolbus window last month that was inaccessible to almost every firefighter present. My dad says the most effective partners have complementary builds. This often means pairing a woman with a man, as it did in this case. This particular pair often works like this: the man helps move the woman to a place he can’t fit (sometimes literally throwing her through a window). If there hadn’t been a woman, the casualties would have been much higher. And that’s just one example. It’s never a disadvantage to have people of different shapes and sizes, all fully trained and all meeting the same physical requirements of the job, who can contribute differently. 

Thirdly, I’m assuming these idiots regard muscled young white men carrying women and children over each shoulder as the Platonic form of firefighter. But it may astonish you to know that in a fire, smoke kills first. You fucking asphyxiate. That’s one reason firefighters never carry people over their shoulder (the other being that it’s extremely dangerous to deadlift a limp body when you’re wearing 80 pounds of equipment—try doing that and you’re more than likely adding to the amount of victims who need to be rescued). If you hold people up to the ceiling, they fucking asphyxiate. Obviously. So you watch too much TV if you think that’s basically the job. How do firefighters evacuate victims from burning buildings? They drag them along the floor. This is so they don’t suffocate the victim, they lead the way first to safety, and they can fully fucking see and manoeuvre through the hazardous environment. I am not strong. I am not in good shape. I could never be a firefighter without some serious physical training (unlike a ton of other women I know, and like a lot of men). Guess what. Even I can drag my 200-pound, tall, male firefighter father across the floor.

You’re not looking out for people’s safety. You’re upholding misogyny and assuming you know what you’re talking about. We do need feminism in firefighting, because it’s a fucking cesspool of white supremacist patriarchal homophobic cisphobic anti-immigrant privilege good old boys’ club bullshit. It’s based on nothing but prejudice, and emergency services should fairly represent the population they’re paid handsomely to defend. Thankfully, people are slowly steering away from this. There are more and more women becoming firefighters, and last month, a woman joined a neighbouring department to my dad’s as a deputy chief. She passed the tests. She has experience and a sterling record. She also has a Master in Gender Studies, and she’s not very big.

Bolded the part that points out you don’t even want a group of people who all have the same characteristics and strengths and motivations involved in saving lives for both obvious and less obvious reasons (well, if you’re a cisgender, straight, white, able-bodied, and/or otherwise privileged.)

wow guys calm the fuck down the first post had the most valid point; All that has to do with the STRENGTH part of fire fighting. (But BIG FUCKING PROPS to the third guy. U just proved an entire situation.)

Biologically, a male has tendencies to be sufficiently stronger then a female. OFCOURSE THERE ARE GIRLS OUT THERE THAT ARE AS STRONG AND STRONGER Then a guy, but biologically, our anatomy says otherwise with both body built and muscle mass.

So basically, and you guys are doing is trying to bitch at something going around the OBVIOUS FACT that you can’t bitch about Mother Nature.

Grats

IF YOU ARE A MAN AND YOU DONT PASS THE STRENGHT TEST YOU WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED EITHER

YOU DIDNT GET IT BECAUSE YOU DIDNT PASS THE STRENGTH TEST, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR FUCKING SEX

and you know what? women //ARE// usually biologically weaker than men. Ofc there are a LOT of strong ladies out there and there are individual people who are stronger than men, BUT THATS JUST THE WAY IT IS. IT DOESNT MAKE WOMEN LESS OF PEOPLE, BUT ITS FUCKING TRUE, YOU DONT LIKE IT? THEN GO SUE MOTHER NATURE OR SOMETHING.

IF THE FIRE DEPARTMENTS WERE TO LET WEAKER PEOPLE IN IT WOULD PUT SO MANY PEOPLE’S LIVES AT RISK, GOD WHAT THE FUCK TUMBLR, WHY ARE YOU SO BLINDED BY YOUR RAGE OVER NOTHING???

You guys do realize that women have scientifically been proven to be weaker than men? Men are imbued with stronger muscles thanks to natural selection.

Women, on the other hand, are blessed with stronger bones, and stronger hearts. So we get to live longer.

It’s not about whether you’re a woman or not. It’s about how strong you are. Jfc tumblr I thought you were better than this.


daisyfairy:

“my songs are aware of what you did with the light off” by

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I'm glad you are removing yourself from this environment you feel has become toxic. I know distancing your self from this site most have been a hard choice for you as you used to put a lot of time into your blog, but I'm proud of you putting your mental health first.
Anonymous

Thank you for your support anon! <3


If leaving tumblr is really what you want to do, I'm not going to stop you. I just want to let you know that you'll be missed and that you are a super duper awesome person.
Anonymous

Thank you, anon. <3


What? Noooo youre one of my favorite blogs you cant leave id miss you :(
Anonymous

I’m really sorry! ; A ;

I’m happy that you do love my blog though. Really, it does mean a lot to me.

I just don’t think tumblr is the place for me. The only reason I’m really clinging to it is because I love seeing how excited people get over fandoms and stuff, but I just…really don’t agree with a lot of people’s views on things. After the previous stuff over the last few days, I thought over lots of my other views on very controversial topics here on tumblr, and I realized that none of them fit in.

And if I were to share these opinions, I’d get a lot more anon hate. Now, I’m not saying the previous messages were hate. In fact, I’m REALLY REALLY proud of that anon and the way he/she handled the situation!!

But some people out there are not that kind and I almost ended up crying myself to sleep because of the paranoia that I’d log on and someone would tell me how dumb, retarded, stupid I am. 


Hey are you alright? I havent really seen you online in a while and i was just wondering if everything was okay :/
Anonymous

I’m okay. Stress and lots of irl stuff is getting to me. Plus tumblr has been boring me, tbh.

I’m probably going to quit tumblr, but we’ll have to see. <3 It just feels too toxic for me now.

Thank you so much for your concern though anon!! It means a lot to me.


(same anon that sent those three questions before) hey thank you so much for understanding but i just wanted to address something you said about overreacting over small issues. by saying that we overreact, i'm assuming you're saying there's something in the first place to react to, right? so how am i supposed to let someone know something they did/said is totally wrong without being angry? The person needs to be FULLY aware of how offensive their actions were. also i reserve the right 2 be angry
Anonymous

Of course you do! 

I agree that in the case that, if someone gets offended, the person who offended the other should definitely be notified and try and put a stop to it, yes.

In terms of overreacting, I suppose what I mean is people getting angry and then….holding a grudge about it.

I’m sorry, I don’t know how else to word this any better. I hope it makes sense though?


morgrana:

*stranger mentions fandom in public*

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in response to a previous post <3

Okay after much contemplation, I decided that my previous posts about cultural appropriation were wrong and sorely mistaken and I was uninformed, and I’m sorry.

I thought over how I would react to something like that, and realizing that I would very likely be offended, realized I was wrong.

This also relates to how angry I get when people make ‘get in the kitchen’ or ‘make me a sandwich’ jokes, because I am a female and such.

However, since I am caucasian and not Native American or African American or any  other ethnicity, I didn’t even think to consider how it might offend people of those races.

What I posted was bigoted and close-minded and I realize that and I do apologize for it.